Day Two:  Grace - Marital Super Glue

Day Two: Grace - Marital Super Glue

Day Two - Grace, Marital Super Glue

But God’s plan was seen from the beginning of creation, for ‘He made them male and female.’ ‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ Since they are no longer two but one, let no one separate them, for God has joined them together.”  Mark 10:6-9

When I was a young, my brothers introduced me to a product called Super Glue. They told me it was powerful—so strong you could hang a car in the air with just a few drops. I was skeptical, of course, so, they decided that we needed to test it out. Naively, I agreed to let them put just a few drops of the liquid glue on my thumb and index finger. Then they counted. It didn’t take me long to realize I’d been duped—my thumb and finger were stuck together and were not coming apart unless I tore some skin along with it.

In marriage, we are like my thumb and index finger—stuck together. Thankfully, all it took for me was a little acetone to get my finger and thumb unstuck. Unfortunately, it can be just as easy in marriage. There are many things that can tear a strong bond apart: stress, finances, infidelity, or one (or both) spouses feeling unimportant and unloved.

Even though we are individuals, as married couples we’ve got to stick together—in good times and bad. Everybody loses their temper or says hurtful things from time to time, so we need a little “Jesus Glue” or grace to hold us together. God loves us and freely offers grace daily which is how we are called to love one another as well.

Extending grace is showing each other the Bible’s definition of love: Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Love isn’t selfish or quick tempered. It doesn’t keep a record of wrongs. Love rejoices in truth, but not in evil. Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting. Love never fails! (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 CEV).

Extending grace to one another—even when life is busy and hard— is a big part of being able

to stick together in the midst of trials. Extending grace means to silence your words over a few annoyances. It means you forget to throw that old mistake in their face during an argument. It means resolving quietly to not react to a situation or comment that annoyed you so that the other person never even realizes it bothered you. It’s important to make sure you have grace on hand at all times. It’s is the super glue that holds a marriage together.

For her: What is one way you can offer grace to your spouse? How can you show him that you are going to “stick with him!”?

For him: What things can you implement in your marriage that will help you stick together like glue?

For us: Discuss one thing that you can do in the coming week that will glue your relationship together into an unbreakable bond. Have a date night, plan a weekend get-a-way, or do a Bible study together. Make an effort this week to re-apply the glue of grace, thoughtfulness, and physical touch—a sure way to keep you sticking together!






Used by permission.  Cornerstone Christian Fellowship

Day One - Happily Annoyed

Day One - Happily Annoyed

Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
Philippians 2:4


Most of the stories we heard as a child ended with: “…and they lived happily ever after.” It’s the stuff fairytales are made of, and it’s also the hope of every couple on their wedding day. You think you are going to be nothing but happy, but sometime later you find yourself thinking...

You're Invited

You're Invited

Marriage is one of the most rewarding relationships we encounter, but it can also be the most challenging. We have an extra resource for you to use during the 40 Day Marriage Challenge Series.  Monday through Saturday you'll see a new daily devotional for couples pop up right here. Each one contains scripture, marriage insights, and three thoughtful questions. Take advantage of this opportunity and, even now, consider asking God to prepare your hearts and minds for what He has for you in the coming weeks.  We'll see you right here on Monday morning.